LOVE YOURSELF

Love yourself💖

I know it gets scary sometimes, but we need to be alone coz its good for our soul.
See, in this speedy life,everything have become superficial and obvious.
We talk to people because we go to same class or same college or same gym, and we hang out with people we end up with and not with those we really want to.And when this happens daily, there's no deepness in anything and its just like a convenient company.

I agree, we laugh, we smile, we talk and we enjoy with them but do we remember them after going home? NO, we just get done with our social life,and hit the bed, tired and empty.And then we wish something to talk more worthy.Maybe the things we wanted to do from long time, Maybe the things that scare you, Maybe we want to connect with ourselves but we don't end up doing this because we have a social circle around us, and many people to care of. And that's the pure fake living and a compromise we've made, and its a lie that we're telling to let people believe in our truth of happiness.
Sometimes we have to go to hell to hug the heaven that our soul was craving too badly for.

Okay let's do one thing, count the number of people we really want in our life, just think about the people you want to be with and after doing this calculation we are able to count them on fingers..
Now think about the time you spend on other people, roughly 3-4 hours daily. That time is totally wasted my friend, you can utilize this time for yourself.

And don't you dare to tell me that you'll get bored too soon with yourself.
You don't get bored stupid, you're just blind to determine your own potential.
What's use of wasting this precious time by being nothing and nobody.

The real truth is that we've lived many years already and we've enjoyed with our friends lovers crushes and all that.
But, are you happy? Where do you stand right now?
See, we've to stop this sad routine and try to do something which will give us a meaningful life.

Be with the people who gives us power of positivity, and just cut that poor, crappy and shitty type of people. We're not here to solve other people's mess. Our life is already a mess.So sort out and see slowly you'll be addicted to this calmness and serenity.

We always see the pics on social media that enjoying with this and that blah blah blah, but most of them are lying and cries to bed.
So keep this in mind that only you yourself will be there for you,always. So better work on that relationship more. Make this love story between you and yourself. The best love story ever,and give yourself more of you....

Love letter

In today's day to day life people throws "I LOVE YOU" like "Hii, HELLO, GOOD MORNING" but when the true feeling comes from deep inside the heart, it is never kept without being expressed in a special way...

Now a days we've whatsapp, instagram, snapchat and many more things to interact with anyone and express our love.

But the most convenient way to do it are love letters
But we think that the love letters are outdated version to express our feelings but actually we are wrong.

We can deliver it in various ways as weather delivering by hand, via friend or keeping it in secret location.

It is full of emotions, devotion, disappointments, ambitions and whatever written in it is pure form of love.

Nothing can beat the fingers touching to the words from our lover, the fragrance of that paper, texture of ink, the effort, all of these things are just awesome.

And the most thrilling experience is "keeping it hidden in some book", away from friends, parents.

These are things our generation is missing out in romance

School days

Last day of school showed the love between all friends
All were emotional ...
But that love was overshadowed by life
Last day of school has different types of memories for everybody ..
Now its just the memories that we can cherish in our lives ..
Those beautiful days are gone
When everything seemed to be beautiful ..
There were no tensions on our young mind apart from not doing homework

School playground was the only place where we used to be calm and relax ..
In school life some found love of their lives and some found F.R.I.E.N.D.S ...!!!

But one thing was yet to come that was separation Some left the school after 10th And then All friends promised on the last day of school that We will stay in contact

Whatsapp groups been made
But the messages were only for short time
Days passed and the chats in groups stayed there only ..
No one knew what was happening in other people's life And now we miss the fun we all had in our school lives ..

Remembering the golden days the time we spent together together in school

LOVE

Everyone has different mindset about this topic according to their understanding, feelings and experience....
So, I'm not sure that everyone will appreciate it...

Love isn't the person to whom we find adorable or cute but for me the love is finding the inner beauty, to see the original you.
Your face, your physical beauty may attract others but not me...
Your inner beauty is the only thing which matters to me.

I appreciate mental connection, similar interests between us, how you react when you are praised and many more...

I like when I feel the butterflies in the stomach when you are around

That awkward expressions I give and then regret for wrong things I have done...

Feeling love thoughts is easy but confessing and expressing love is somewhat difficult. Actually we aren't able to translate feelings into words, and real love comes when we don't have any reason to love that person.

Our heart produces some feelings, and we tend to complete those own unknown promises....

study time

Most of the students in their important academic years want to study well.

The only thing come in mind for scheduling time is use of the social sites.

Many of them will uninstall/deactivate their accounts on respective media.

 Due to many factors like parent's pressure and our own tension we tends to make rules.

But, don't make unnecessary rules and get stucked on them
i.e. dont suppress yourself.

Rather than suppressing ourselves we've to point out mistake which we are doing in our life.

Niether any thing is good, nor it's bad, but overuse of it is always problematic.


So if we think we might control ourselves from doing overuse then its a solution to a problem.

to be with whom

Be with someone who is interested in you.
And I'm not talking about spouse or beloved, I'm talking in general.

I'm not talking about someone who finds you adorable or cute.
I'm talking about someone who wants to understand every single bit of you,no matter how insignificant they are for others or even you for that matter.

Someone who wants to read every single thing you write. Someone who wants to share a playlist with you and play them to you whenever you feel sad and low.

One who understands your love for certain artists and unexpressive love for certain movies or TV serieals.

Someone who wants to find every single scar on your body, and learn where they came from.

One who understands that you have a dark past and your soul with a sound every time you'll think of it.

There is a difference between attraction and interest.

Find someone who wants to turn every single page of you no matter what next chapter brings in your life.

Trust

Trusting anyone isn't a bad thing, infact trust is very necessary for our livelihood.
Without trusting others we cannot function in the society or could not able to live long either.

But trusting is other thing and over-trusting is different,
if you over-trust anyone then you expect something.
And, expectations leads to disappointment

Hence overtrustworthiness may cause disappointments.

Trust is very sensible thing,
Be good enough to trust anyone but don't be mad to trust them again.

Trust is necessary everywhere i.e. in family,relationship,friendship etc
So if anyone trusts you he is bounded with you so , don't dare to break it.